Monday, May 29, 2006
Well i got that experience myslef last friday. This is Appraisal time in our company and as expected ppl are giving tough time to the mangers, however what came to me as a result of my appraisal is totall shock. I have been rated among the top performers, inspite of this i am denied promotion, instead another guy (at the same level as i am ) got the promo. On being asked at what counts i fell short to get the promo, i was given answers like
1. It was a random decision (bill shit)
2. he had done some extra curricular activities (is this college/ school and are there grades for that if there are why i was not told)
3. i have no answer (now ur getting to the point)
Well thats it i knew the answer buggers are being partial. That was not all he tried all the tricks including threatening to keep my mouth shut....well on Monday (yesterday) i met SPM (his baap) and as expected he is his Baap all managerial funde and crap but i did not budge and he gave me "suggestions", "advices" and in the end reluctantly admitted his mistake (though not openly but in carefully crafted words).
This mrng i got a mail that i have another meeting regarding my performance evaluation..Boss that is closed why u want to get screwed by me again ... he he will update it later.
Update Finally i had another meeting with my PM and he reminded me of u have worked on this this this (saale pehle yaad nahin aaya kya?) Then he said i have confidence in u and stuff. ... (ha ha i am listening) then he said I AM SORRY (u shud be u !@#$%)
Sunday, May 14, 2006
i don't wanna go back
All i can think now is i will be back in 5 months time .. and have Parathas :)
Monday, May 08, 2006
whts Cookin?
Monday, April 17, 2006
Shopping In Delhi
The next day we headed to GK, the place is full of showrooms.....an ideal place to do window shopping and yea to see beautiful grls :) i thought since the place is not big i wud be done with shopping in half a day and wud get the much needed sleep. But my cousin (groom) had other plans, we wanted to buy shoes and whenever we liked smthing someone or the other wud say lets look in other shops and come back (notice the culprit CHOICE), in doing so we spent the whole day just in buying shoes...well i am not complaining it was for Groom who had to look the best (i suppose).
The next day was spent in CP hunting for a suit, i never realized that buying a suit is gng to be the toughest. I spent the whole day looking and trying suits after suits and bought nothing.
The next day we headed to Noida -sec 18 and finally i bought a suit which i think i am not gng to wear again in near future.
After 4 days i was almost done with my shopping and was so tired, but there was one thing still missing, Sherwani for the marriage. Fortunately that was gng to be stitched and i needn't had to bother abt it (thank god!).
Shopping in Delhi taught me one lesson, the more choices u have the more confused u get, so next time do ur shopping frm Bangalore :)
Also never go out shopping with Fashion Designers as they tend to experiment but i am not complaining coz i looked cool (i think).
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Was it an Accident?
I feel sorry for the poor models what happened and commend the way they handled esp Carol Garcias. However i still cannot digest politicians taking interest in fashion....man India is Shining. On a serious note this again points to the moral policing our politicians like to do...they just can sit quite and shut up....no they want a probe..Probe? what for? well if at all we need probes is for corruption? why ppl are so poor? why infra is poor? etc. etc. but who cares for that.
All they care is for baning TV channels, spread hatred among the public etc. etc.
Friday, March 31, 2006
What a Day!
I generally do not look back at a day till i get into my bed, i have no clue why i am thinking abt it so soon. May be b'coz i am in Office this late after a long time (5 months to be precise). More so i am still stuck with the damn paperwork, i wonder when will i get out of this mess :(
Then its end of the month .. Salary Day....yippie.. oh Hell!! this is end of the financial year too Gosh!! how much money Govt. has stolen from me .. ha ha ha.. ya the bloody Tax ... i have been robbed!
Then there is one thing i have been aware since morning.... No Dinner tonite @ home :(
Well i am yet to decide how waz the day for me. But all i can say March 31st reminds me that in 7 days time i will be at home feasting on "Aloo ke Parethe" made by Mom... i just can't wait for that
...damn! No food tonite :)
Thursday, March 23, 2006
Tax, Tax and more Tax
PS: anybody havin more info abt state budget and its impact on us can do a post or send links.
Monday, March 20, 2006
Paper work .. Paper work .. more Paperwork
And then after wasting half a day for driving test i came to know that i need to do more paperwork as the appraisal time is here. I wonder when will this paperwork will leave me???
PS: I passed my driving test and will be getting license soon :)
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
Holi Hai!
Enuf of centi i guess.....Here’s Wishing u a Very Colorful Holi!
Friday, March 10, 2006
Saza-e-Kalapani
Thursday, March 09, 2006
Terrorism in India...Whos Line is it anyway?
To start with the govt....yea the customary meetings, calling up the Chief Minister etc. etc. what was their in the manual is all done. what the govt shud do frm this point of time is WAKE UP! and tighten the screws of the intelligence agencies, arm the local police well and pay them well which will keep thier motivation lever high. 303 is obsolete, provide them smthing they can bank upon. There is a significant lack of co-ordination among different govt. agencies which is evident frm the reports after such incidents. When the Govt. will take steps to correct the shorcommings in its policies? After how many incidents? After how many loss of lives? Reading this article, many ppl feel (including me) that the govt. is lax in its policy to tacle Terrorism. There are laws like TADA which has brought its misuse by political parties to the limelite. We are talking abt National Security, our security and these ppl are framing laws so that they can settle political scores. Will these "wise" men will ever grow up and think beyond politics? i wonder! We should have a firm policy in place so that such henious attcks does not occur in fututre and the culprits get appropriate punshment.
Media .. Please do not bother abt ur TRPs, Stop sensationalising news. Also stop asking Stupid Questions! Media is also a partner in spreading communal tensions along with political parties by asking stupid questions and giving ideas to crazy ppl. Political parties these are the culprits responsible for dividing Indian society, causing tensions, violence while they have a quality time on our expense (tax payers money and general public ignorance). Still at this point they are trying to woo people by playing with their sentiments..worse spreading tension, hatered. I wonder which other nations' PM calls upon his ppl for restraint among people of differnent religions..It Happens Only in India! Hon. politicinas understand one thing these are the lives of people ur playing with not the vote banks as u see it.
Religious Fundamentalists all i want to say abt them is Shut Up! if u want to do any good to the ppl of ur religion if not society help the ppl who are suffering frm poverty, disease.
Finally people of India "Jago", understand what is in our interest and not get provoked by silly comments. Choose ou representatives wisely. Live and let live
Stocks and Stock Markets
Tuesday, March 07, 2006
Justice in India ... a costly affair.
There are lots of things that are unique abt India..to start with culture, language and ofcourse the yummy food which everyone appriciates and talks abt. These days there are lot many things aprt frm good ppl talk abt India like its foreign relations (read US of A), economy...well to apty put u hear sub-continent and India is the first thing comes into my mind. "Sub" continent..wow thats pretty big but then a question pops up in my mind how easy it is to get justice here.
There is no doubt we in India have one of the finest documented law system in the world. Our constitution in itself is a master piece. However as they say "Nobody is perfect"..very true nthing is perfect...in this case i feel that law system in pur country is not anywhere near perfect.
If there is a new law coming we get to know well in advance and if anyone of us is frm a business class family u will definately know before that advice/suggestion has become a law, we have already found the loop holes to exploit it.
I have found our law system pretty strange, Firstly, for the sheer number of pending cases at all levels. Secondly, nobody believes in the system anymore...general belief is if a case has started it will go on forever..true very true (telling frm personal experience).
Then u have a unique way of getting justice. u have to start at the lower level say a Sessions Court where if u are lucky u will get justice in 5-10 years. If anybody is not satisfied with the judgement (it is impossible to satisfy a human being....humane nature) then we have High Court and the same procedure is repeated again and this time we get judgement in less time say 2-3 years .. again humane nature.. and we have the baap of all courts THE Supreme Court of India.. housed in a magnificient structure in delhi.
I wonder if one follow this path (many do actually) how long will it finally take get justice...hmmm.. i have no clue. But one thing is sure the scenes from Hindi films aptly applies (son taking forward the case frm his father)...the only difference is it doesnot get over in 3 hours it really goes on for a long time (personal experience again).
Well times are changing here, and the day is not far away when govt will set-up some committee for law reforms....my only hope is that it stays free frm political influence....
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Wednesday, March 01, 2006
Meter Down!
This was good movie, full of laughter and Nana Pategar as usual at his best... John Abraham was OK (i know grls, he is more than OK), still i wud say he was ok in the movie. The story line is a bit "Hat ke". All in all it was a good time pass.
PS: According to me a movie is good if i am not sleeping in the hall :)
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
What? a News!
I agree that Bush visit is very significant for that matter it is true for any American or Russian president visiting India, however we should also be informed about the issues which affects our daily life (its been one week since I am off chicken diet :( ). Besides does the Indian Prime Minister gets the same coverage in the western media when he visits US or UK... I don't think so.
In my view Indian media has a long way to go before we call them as mature.
PS: this view is only for the reports I have seen in Newspapers and web-sites as I do not have TV at home, so guys do post howz the situation is on News Channels. Hopefully we will get some news about budget too ;)
Monday, February 27, 2006
Unconsciously conscious
Hopefully in 10 days time I will be getting my driving license and then I will think about which car to buy.. So next time u see a guy staring at the cars... thats me and another guy staring at girls...that will be my frend: D
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
Its a Bomb Scare...Everybody Run!
As were descending down the stairs on thing i noticed is everybody was quite calm and infact some even carried a broad smile...which ofcourse they do here at workplace.
Now sitting in office we are still waiting for the offical mail for the threat being Hoax..but what puzzles me is why this has happened second time here in span of 3 months or so...which person/group of persons love this tech park so much that this was the second hoax call in 3 months time.
What if it wasn't a hoax....the thought sends chill down my spine.....well then the question arises what we can do? or what can the company security do? We can be alert all the time but still the security lies with Police and not the private security which every company hires.
As i think of the Hoax second time.....i hope "Third Time lucky" shud never happen...
Monday, February 20, 2006
Hello Hello Bird Flu in India.....Stop Eating...Chicken
After having spent full day with my college frend i returned home on a Saturday nite pretty early around 9 pm, me and my flat mate decided to watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S.. so we hooked the laptop to the speakers decided which season we wanted to watch....2 episodes down i got a call frm home, i looked at the time and it was 10:45 and thought what happened? i never get calls frm home this late...i picked up the call...
Have u watched the news my mother asked in a worried voice and then she added there has been bir-flu case reported in Maharashtra.. Stop eating all non-vegetarian food. As i heard the words i was thinking my gosh what am i gonna eat? Trying to convince her i said mamma its just in birds, there is no infection in human is reported in India...just calm down. After 10 min of persuation i finally got persuaded of not eating chicken for some time :( and now i am thinking gosh what i am gng to eat.....mm...Fish .. neh they do not server as good as i am habituated off frm my Port Blair days...
Next Day gng thru TOI report on Bird Flu on line got my attention "These cases may have occured a week or 2 earlier but due to business considerations were reported yesterday"......... Business Considerations? what does that mean...has ppl have lost their mind or they value money more than their life? Well what else can u expect here....where ppl are use to make money even in money alloted for relief work for natural disasters. But this is Bird Flu...hope ppl realise that smtime they have to forgo and provide genuine help....as for myself i have to think for alternative non-veg food :) ... Stay Safe ppl
Friday, February 17, 2006
Finally...
After watching the movie i realized why everybody asked "Have u watched it yet?"...Well all i can ay abt the movie is
T00000000000000O GooooooooooooooD
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Whats gng on????
1. Starting with Supreme Court asking govt to make marraige registrations mandatory -- i didn't know till yesterday that u have to get ur marriage also registered...hmm then ur kids (birth certificate) .. house, vehicle.. the list is all and finally smone will get my death certificate (which is i must say 40 yrs frm now). My gosh how many certificates we are gng to collect and file in our lifetime
2. Govt. initiating a controversy of census of muslims in armed force.....plz leave one institution alone which has worked against all odds just to make sure that i write this blog where i want, when i want.. leave them as independent as they are.
3. CM of Karnataka is all over TOI these days .. big statments .. even bigger headlines.....and i must say even bigger potholes (defination to be reworked) in Koramangla which i cross on my way home....but i must admit the guy has real good intentions .. hope he doesnot fall under collition partners pressure.
4. Dating -- these days there seems to be a trend of speed dating , finding a dream date whether it is in print media or in Radio City.......Seriously i do not understand the concept.
and finally, Sania Mirza is in Bangalore ............................... what more i can say :)
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
For all you Singles out there

Here are my thought on Valentines day..well not exactly mine but a sure one to through...so for all those thinking of a song "Akele hain to kya gum hai...", i hope this pic will help u a lot....and as for me well i do not think of a song like "Akele hain to kya gum hai..." but i yea i am being reminded of a song "Neele Neele Ambar per..." as it plays on my Winamp....
Happy Valentines Day!!!
Monday, February 13, 2006
Bryan Adams rocked Blore on 5th Feb
For 4 years in college our wing had only one music....music by Bryan adams and when the mystro played his old flicks, it brought lot of memories in my mind esp when he played "Everything i do, i do it for u" i remembered my balcony mate who played this song all the later 3 years in college who screwed up his life for smone....all in all it was a very great experionce ppl present overly excited, cheering, shouting and singing, all the stuff u need for an electric atmosphere.
We totally enjoyed ourselves as i believe others too who were present. However i was a bit disappointed for he did not play "Here i am" and ofcourse "i want to be ur underwear" :)..
....in the end what i remember most is Summer of '69 which wud have been better if the star had sung full song by himself and not the audience but hell whos complaing it was one good nite to remember!
Friday, February 10, 2006
How eazy it is to get a passport
Without any TROUBLE???? Ask me, it took 3 years 7 days and 2 passport applications to finally get a passport, whats left was a dream shattered of gng to US and getting Masters str8 frm college after graduation......
It all began when i was at home in Semester Break in the winter of 2003, i applied for a passport in one of the Regional Passport Office (RPO ) in U.P. submitting all the relevent details and documents...what began after that was a nightmare of numerous visit to the RPO (which is @ 1 hour drive frm my home town).
Every 6 months when i was at home, i had to make 2 to 3 visits to the passport office to inquire abt the status of my application. And the response frm the employess was pathetic...no clear answers, u have to repeat ur questions so many times that u tend to believe the person at the other end is deaf. Thats not all even the ppl with similar causes are as bad as the officers and staff.. there was no sense of First Come First Serve basis, no Queue system. It was (and i think still is) a total choas... A jungle out there.
Frustrated after completing my graduation when i was @ home for 15 days i decided that enuf is enuf and i do not need a damn passport anymore and i went to the Passport office to get my application cancelled . Guess what the same person @ the enquiry counter says when i asked him the procedure to close passport application.... Are Sir kahen ko close kar rahe ho .. aapke hazaar rupye jaayenge (Sir, why are u closing ur file......u will lose ur Rs. 1000 for the application)....i held back the urge saying i will give u another 1000 to close the damn file.....After 5 hrs of running after frm Peon to the Passport officer i got my file closed.
Exactly after a year i decided to apply for a fresh passport (or lets say to try my luck once again), this time in Bangalore where i have been working for two years now.
One a Friday morning 4 months ago i reached Passport Office @ MG road around 8:45 am and got a shock of my life ... there was actually a queue of ppl waiting for the office to open and accept their application. A queue? my gosh this was the first of the many shocks i was gng to bear this particular day.....after 90 min. of wait in a queue.. i entered passport office and a person at the enterance verified my docs and gave me copon number and told me to go str8 and take the second right. This was shcock number 2 -- govt. official telling me the way ( i thought God am i still in India) but what i liked most was the politeness of the staff there.... i got all my paper work done within 30 min and headed str8 to office.
My Police verification was done 3 weeks later and the status changed to "You are Granted a passport" 2 weeks later.... finally i got my passport few weeks back and now i am thinking what shall i do with it now :)
Friday, January 27, 2006
Shopping in Bangalore on Weekends/Holidays......
Few weeks back i went out with my fren who wanted to shop for a pair of jeans. We left early frm our homes thinking its not gng to be crowded as all the places are in Blore on weekends, after all it was thurday Jan. the 26th. Alas! we were wrong and our nightmare begun........we reached a Mall @ MG around 4 pm and after lookin around my fren chose 3 Jeans to try and headed for trial rooms.....i told him i will be hangin around while he makes up his mind which one to buy.......returning after 25 min. i still found him standing in the queue.................astonished i looked around for other trial rooms location and the situation was not differnet .. long queues....after a wait of 45 min. we came out empty handed and frustrated.
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
Bryan Adams coming to Bangalore
Oh my gosh!!! is it applicable for this concert too... i am afraid so it is
Neverthless i am still excited abt the visit of the greatest rockstar.......
Monday, January 16, 2006
The City i fell in love with ....
It is almost three and half years back when I along with four of my class mates came to this city for our Summer Internship. All of us almost instantly fell in love with the beautiful city which is known as Bangalore. There are lots of things that ppl like abt Bangalore. To name a few which had left us mesmerized were --
- Of course the weather esp. the cool breeze in the evening (month of June-July) which reminded me of my Port Blair days. It was awesome we use to roam post dinner enjoying the cool air and clear skies. Clear skies? Well yea come to Assam and u will find out what it looks like in June and July there -:)
- Then there was (still is) BMTC, I was amazed how peaceful ride in a city bus can be (and comfortable if u know the local language) esp. if u compare it with DTC/ blue line buses of Delhi. Well initially it was not comfortable as we didn’t knew the neither the routes nor the language, as a result u have to ask the driver , confirm it will go pass thru ur destination and board the bus all under 30 sec. phew!. I remembered one such incident when I boarded the bus from the front side all under 15 sec., boy that was fast. Alas! Only I knew that here that the front entrance is only for ladies, once I was asked by the driver who stopped the bus rite in the middle of road and asked me to get on frm the back entrance.
- Last but not the least is the PEOPLE of Bangalore. They are so cheerful and helpful.
- Of course how can one in blore forget Brigade and MG...That time there was no forum or central.
All in all it was very good experience and we enjoyed every minute of our stay, and we decided that we will come back here to work after our engineering. I am glad three of us made it year and a half back.
If some-one is wondering abt me mentioning Port-Blair and Assam, will write abt them where I spent few years before coming to Blore in subsequent posts.
Abhinav